4 Shame Of Believers
Salim bin Abdullah from his father, said that the Messenger of passing on the Ansar who was advising (in another narration: blame) concerning his shame. (He said, "Look, you always feel ashamed", as if he said, "Actually shame it harm.") Then, the Messenger of Allah. said, "Leave her alone, because embarrassment it part of faith."
Many people mistakenly interpret this hadith, considers that the shame is part of the faith that is silent in all aspects, ignoring mebiarkan goodness and badness.
Whereas the application of the tradition is not the case, if we tafakuri together and linked with the state of the following is the charity of the faithful a true shame, among others:
1. Shame when asked malice and backbiting yourself
When I was in one forum or chat, then the man should keep his honor. When asked about the evils that exist in ourselves then we ought to cover it and do not be acted upon without the signs and dismissal.
But today instead when covered by the media or to share it to social media then did not hesitate to explain the evils and shortcomings him when it is a very personal thing and should only be spoken in private moments with people that are important such as husband, wife, family , companions in order to engage in meditation and ma'ruf nahi unjust.
2. Shame when asked herself surplus
In contrast to the first point, the next embarrassment was embarrassed when asked about the advantages of self. Lest when asked about the advantages of self then acted it all so difficult to stop talking, especially if bring a sense of overbearing and arrogant.
3. Shame to God when do badness
When we want to do an evil, should remember to Alah. Because God has given so much good, but instead rewarded infidelity and denial of Him.
Do we not remember until now God still gives the breath and body movement while Allah give it for free without any loading while we do not give anything to God.
4. Shame to humans when do badness
At the time of doing something bad was about to let remember also to both parents. They give love and make a living without being asked back while we betray their trust by doing things that make them ashamed. Also to relatives and friends, imagine if the evils known to all, of course, they do not want friends again