Couple For Muslimah

Prolog

If a person or perhaps when you were asked about your match it will display a variety of answers. 

If you have not had the heart moorings altogether typically answer want a mate who paced the perfect example: he wants a mate was a devout, good-looking, well-established, memorizing the Koran, worship daily nice, a descendant of the good is essentially when empty hearts and the mind of attachment to a person in general will make the choice of targets that completely perfect dream mate.

If You Have Someone

But if you already have a lovely heart or maybe a girlfriend, then the answer is different again. When asked about her match answers will lead to the characteristics of their partner (girlfriend). Do not care anymore about the advantages and disadvantages owned by a "boyfriend" who clearly wants the same of her.

Love By Experience

The answer would be different if we ask the people who have failed in courtship, marriage might fail towards his girlfriend to marry first with others or broken. Usually when that is the answer rather Rada pessimistic, "all men are the same," "I do not believe anymore with men", "I am hurt by men", "for the moment not thinking about dating used to be", "Trauma later fear of failing again".

But if age has started up, my friends already had a baby, the family and relatives have started asking "when married", then the answer about a mate becomes more simple. "The important thing islam, pious, devout and able to support a family".

Yes, that's less common answer when asked about the partner to several people, each person would have their own perception and the definition of a soul mate. There is an optimistic soul mate, there are subjektiv in its assessment, there are pessimistic and there is also a very simple and simple. All of course depends on past experience, current conditions and knowledge about how to mate.

Many people are troubled about his soul mate, was a little worried either select or no choosing so choose the path of vice courtship as the effort to get a soul mate. Which pacaranpun let alone get a solution that is actually adding to the problem so it looked pessimistic case matchmaking. On the other hand there is also an increasingly agitated because God has not been a meeting he had with his soul mate while increasingly growing age.

Solution Of Heart

Why many are anxious and upset when talking mate?, Because most of us imposing our personal definitions and perceptions of the match, follow the "ego" is even mingled with lust in determining our soul mate. Dating is a mystery, no one knows about who our soul mate, but the good news of God is love a little glimpse of our soul mate if doing this we use as a reference would be the main solution turmoil and anxieties.

God divulge Secrets about dating in the letter An-nur Verse 26:

"The women are not good for men who are not good, and men who are not good is for women who are not good anyway. Women who .Good for a good man and a good man for a good woman. (Qs. An Nur: 26)

In the above verse Allah described the man is good only for a good woman and vice versa. Here we get a "clue" if a mate it is a reflection of ourselves, it as we are. If we are pious, obedient, loves to read the Koran, good character and temperament In syaa Allah, Allah will arrange a meeting also with people like that.

After knowing this, of course we have the same understanding, trust and of course also to practice it. Expected after knowing this could change our perception in understanding mate, who padamulanya may focus "on what" soul mate into focus "how my personal" in order to get a suitable mate my hopes and dreams.